Seldom do people realize how important it is to be positive. There are people and things we allow in our lives that don't benefit us in a good way. I recently had to do a self evaluation and realized how sometimes I allow outsiders to ruin my day and control my emotions. I'm responsible for one thing and that is my reaction, I can choose to be angry or happy. I also have the choice to remove myself from negative people. I am truly a firm believer in you are what you attract, and that positivity is contagious. Have you ever been around someone who just lifts you up when they are around or are just a joy to be with ? These are the types of people you should constantly surround yourself with. You also want to hang out with people who are reaching for something bigger in life, why ? People who have goals in life will make you want to keep reaching for more in yours, whereas people without them tend to discourage you. They may say things like " You need to be more realistic" or " Why don't you just blah, blah, blah ". The unfortunate thing is sometimes these "people" are your parents, your bestfriend, or even a spouse. Your life is yours to live even if you are making a bad decision that's your mistake to make, In fact I believe life throws you curves just so you can actually learn something from it. I have never made a mistake I regret, because I always look at how this can benefit me. If you look for the negatives you'll find them and if you look for the positives you'll find them too, its all about what you choose to focus on. This is a good vibes only area and I hope to be that person that lifts you up when times are bad, or maybe you just need a little encouragement. You can always reach me via e-mail on our contact page if you ever need some uplifting or simply visit every Monday for Motivation Monday. Lastly, remember to take control or your life happiness and reach for the unthinkable!